Beauty & the Beast Book Tag


For those of you who don’t know I had a blog before this one called Kirsty and the Cat Read and while I was blogging under that name I created a couple of my own original book tags. The first of which, the one I’m proudest of, was The Beauty & Beast Book Tag. I thought I’d re-do it over here and see if my answers have changed much since July last year!


  • Thank the person who tagged you
  • Mention the creator (myself)
  • Match a book to each of the songs/characters below.
  • Tag as many people as you like to do the same

1) Tale As Old As Time – A popular theme, trope or setting you will never get bored of.

So my original answer to this was books set in world war 2 and I’d have to say that I still stand by this.

Anxiety · The Power of:

The Power of Journalling

I’m thinking of having a segment talking about certain things which have had power in helping me cope over the past two years. This time I thought I would talk about keeping a journal. This has to be the biggest tool I have in coping recently.


How I started:

After I started having panic attacks and I felt too nervous about going to see my therapist that’s when journalling became really powerful for me. It was around September/October time and so I was using my many empty notebooks to plan for NaNoWriMo. As I was going through making a plan of action and world building I think someone I was subscribed to on Youtube had posted another flipthrough, I figured I had nothing to loose if I let off some steam and just put my thoughts and frustrations on the page.

In all honesty I felt like a real numpty at first. Writing about my day or how I still felt over past situations just didn’t feel natural for me, even as someone who has wanted to be a writer for 20years! I stuck to it none the less and probably felt a bit daft for 3 or 4 months but then something clicked and I couldn’t stop after that. It took me a year and a couple of days to finish my first journal and I’m onto my second now and after only 2 and a half months I am more than half way through already because I realised what worked and what didn’t in my first journal and worked with that.

How it’s helped me:

At a time when I was too scared to see my therapist, when I felt I couldn’t or shouldn’t open up to people in my everyday life and I felt enclosed in darkness I found a little light in writing. Sometimes it might been deep dark secrets and worries, other times it might be a simple list of things I need to buy. Either way getting the thoughts onto a page always makes me feel like it’s taken a little of the noise from my mind.

Jounalling has been especially powerful when writing about past experiences that feel I haven’t really stopped hurting me. Writing letters, memories and rants in my private book helps me feel like I have a place to go. A place where there is no judgement and no expectation for me to talk more or less than what I need. More importantly though I can read over whenever I feel ready and really see what I’m actually trying to say. I can hear in my words where my anger or sadness peaks and this has become a big tool in trying to change my attitude because looking back I can see what I really feel is more deep rooted than what I think I’m feeling.

From the age 7 I have always wanted to be a writer so creating worlds, plots, characters etc has always come somewhat naturally to me. Writing down how I feel though, that’s a minefield. Using my journal to be 100% honest with myself really challenges me to take responsibility for my actions and attitude. Depending on how you use your journal it can be the most powerful and useful tool in getting you back onto your path after a really dark period.

Pros & Cons:

I’m going to do a few posts in the future about my tips for keeping a journal, picking your first journal, the different ways of journaling etc but for now I will leave you with the pro’s and cons from my point of view.



Free Space Doodling!

I hate Only writing half way down a page and it feels weird to me starting a new page of writing straight after. Sometimes I do carry on with my next writing piece but a lot of the time I use the free space to practice my doodling! I like to draw little pictures next to the titles of my writing pieces so free space doodling lets me practice and keeps me sharp. It doesn’t matter if it’s not fantastic or if it’s a bit goofy it livens up the page and stops me getting bored šŸ™‚



Kicking Butt? Put it in the book!

When I’m having a day where I feel like I’ve made some head way with my anxiety I like to write it in the book, just for me. I know if some others read it they’d think the things I’m celebrating are silly little things but for me they are a struggle and I deserve to pat myself on the back! These are also so good to look back on when I’m feeling low to remind myself not every day is bad, it’s a journey not a destination! Also I like to make the good day pages look pretty to really emphasise it!


20170918_190636Super-mini Bujo Spread!

I am subscribed to so many Bullet Journal folks on Youtube and I’ve always wanted to do this for myself. I live for organisation, stationary etc but whenever I have tried to do it I have failed because I don’t have a lot of meetings and I don’t go to school (I work full time) etc. Every week though I do like to write a weekly review and then do a one page bujo-esque spread for the goals and tasks I want to get through in the week ahead! It’s nice to make the page pretty and give myself a bit of purpose and something to work on!



  1. Bag space: Okay so the actual journals I use are A5 I believe so they don’t take up that much space but if you’re like me and like to write in different colours with different pens (ball point, gel, fountain) then you need a pencil case and that’s just more space used!
  2. Failed Ideas: I don’t usually mind if what I write sucks, if my drawings are a little crumby that doesn’t bug me too much either but when a spread idea fails it really annoys me. I’ve seen some people press flowers in their journal and so I tried it – EPIC FAIL! some people do some cute or powerful pages dedicated to a lyric or quote they like, again most my attempts were rubbish – think it just bugs me because it’s a total waste of page!
  3. The Questions: I don’t tend to tell many people that I journal but people at work know because they’ve seen me do it on lunch and most my family know. The more people that know the more it opens you up to questions though. my work colleagues have asked quite a few times if they’re in there, or if something goes wrong or I get stressed I’ve heard one woman at work say “oh watch out that will be in the journal.” it shouldn’t really bother me but it does. This is my safe place not something for you to mock, judge and question!

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Stop, Think & Breathe: App Review

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I have been trying to get into meditation for a few months now because almost everyone says it is the way forward when it comes to recovery. I was talking to someone at work and they said that if I was new to meditating it can be a bit daunting. They advised that I look around at all the apps that are available to provide guided meditations until I feel confident enough to do it on my own. I picked “Stop, Think & Breathe” I think it matches my personality the best. It has graphs to show the general mood both pre and post meditation and allows you to pick certain emotions to work out which guided meditation would be best for you.

Top 3 pros:

  • Tailored meditations based on current mood: This for me is the best feature of the app. You can input how you’re feeling mentally and physically then choose up to 5 key words. The app then takes a few moments before showing you a short list of suggested guided meditations based on that info.
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    • e & Post graphs: there is a graph of your pre and post meditation moods and if you use this app regularly it could be pretty useful to see not only the progress you make (mood wise) but could potentially help identify if there are certain days you feel worse than others.
    • Key words: I like that in the “my progress” section there is a bit at the bottom that shows the words you have picked the most for the week, the month and also overall.


    • Doesn’t Save Key Words: Even though it gives you an overview of your top words it doesnt save the words you use. So the graph shows you felt “meh” or “rough” but doesn’t show you what words you picked to go with that mood. This, for me, would be super useful because I like to try and spot trends, habits or triggers so I can work on them.
    • Meditation count: Just like your key words it doesn’t show you what meditation you did to help. Again I would find this super helpful with looking at the trends in my behaviour and finding the best meditation to use going forward. Even if its not possible to keep a record of which ones you used on which day perhaps just a simple count of how many times each meditation has been done overall would be handy.
    • Reminders: Usually I hate apps that have reminders but I think it would work really well with this one. As someone new to meditating I often forget to do it but if I could set a reminder on the app would be really helpful. This obviously isnt a big issue for me as I can set an alarm/reminder on my phone.


    I really like this app. It’s easy to use and has really helped ease me into meditations with some pretty great guided sessions. If you’re wanting to start meditating and think guided sessions is something you want to try then I would highly recommend this app as a great way to start!


    The Hate U Give – Book Review

    The Hate U Give


    Sixteen-year-old Starr lives in two worlds: the poor neighbourhood where she was born and raised and her posh high school in the suburbs. The uneasy balance between them is shattered when Starr is the only witness to the fatal shooting of her unarmed best friend, Khalil, by a police officer. Now what Starr says could destroy her community. It could also get her killed.
    Inspired by the Black Lives Matter movement, this is a powerful and gripping YA novel about one girl’s struggle for justice.


    I have attempted to write this review more times than I can count since finishing the book back in April. So I thought maybe the easiest way to go about it was to break it down a little!

    Starr: This is a very character driven book and you can really tell thats where the author has put alot of her passion and energy. Reading Starr’s story doesn’t feel like your reading fiction not only because her experiences reflect that of so many others but because she has been written so well. Her journey throughout the book is really beautiful to read her thoughts and attitudes are being shaped in such a strong way. At the beginning of the book she appears to be a girl who is perhaps not necessarily embarassed but definitely reserved about her full personality. By the end of the book she is a strong woman with fire in her belly and passion in her heart to stand up and be her complete self and fight for justice.

    Family: I found this book to be really refreshing with it’s family dynamic. The author doesn’t try and portray them as absolutely perfect and always 100% supportive nor does she try to portray them as damaged beyond repair and uncaring for each other. Both are traps I feel almost all YA authors fall into. This family were just written as a normal family there for each other when they need to be but firm when necessary. Every single person in this family felt like a real person and like everything down to little quirks had been thought about and brought to light naturally. The whole book is a beautiful example of showing and not telling.

    Friends: Starr’s relationship with her friends and her boyfriend was something that really brought to light the changes she went through. For the most part it’s hard to see why she keeps so much of herself and her personality private. Her boyfriend and best friend are incredibly accepting of her and her different background. But at school she is also around people who she thinks are friends that arent willing to open their minds to what is really happening and you can see that is the biggest reason she holds back. Starr seems to split herself in the beginning between her friends at school and her friends in her neighbourhood. In my opinion its this split and the slow shift in the dynamics that really moves the book along rather than the plot. In a lot of ways it feels like a coming of age story because of how she learns to cope with and bring together her two worlds.

    Themes: The book heavily focus on culture divides, the black lives matter movement and how both citizens and police are viewed in the media after the police shoot an unarmed POC. I think these themes and events were written incredibly well and provoked a lot of questions and a lot of anger. I think it speaks volumes for the talent, passion and understanding of the author to be able to tackle sensitive subjects like this. It felt very much real and not like it has been overly dramatised for effect.

    Plot: To be honest it didnt really feel like there was a plot to this book. It just felt like a series of events strung together till a conclusion was gained. Thats not to say the book wasn’t interesting or compelling to read it just didnt seem to have much of a structure to it. I have a theory that this might be because all the focus was on character development and the themes. She covered these areas so well that I’m not overly dissapointed by the lack of structure.

    Overall: I hope I’ve made it pretty obvious I really loved this book since it has taken me numerous attempts to write this review. Despite my attempts I’m still not happy and don’t feel I have done this book justice! I think its an important book for people of most ages to pick up and get a good idea of some of the grittier more realistic scenarios that happen regularly over in the states.


    Nightmare in November – An Anxiety Anecdote


    So I was scratching my head trying to think of what would be a good official first post. It needed to be something that would help you all get a feel for what I want this blog to be and hopefully help you get to know me a little more.

    I finally settled on the defining moment that lead me to get diagnosed officially with Anxiety. A somewhat embarrassing anecdote which was the final straw for me and pushed me to finally talk to my Dr and realise that what I had been going through most my life but especially those past months was not “normal” (whatever that means)!

    So it was a Sunday morning in November and at that time my younger brother was living with me. We were taking part in NaNoWriMo and each Sunday we’d take ourselves to a Costa Coffee to do some writing sprints and treat ourselves after long weeks at work. We had been doing this for months not just for NaNoWriMo and there was nothing different about this trip, we ordered hot chocolate, a sandwich and a cake for after. We did this every week and for the first half hour or so we were fine, writing away at our respective novels. I was happy, things were good, I was doing something I loved and was passionate about – and did I mention I had cake!

    I felt a hot flush of sorts, which I put down to heavy winter clothes or the hot chocolate I pushed past and ignored it as best I could. Before I knew it my leg started twitching, my foot pumping away at some imaginary pedal, and my fingers felt numb. I wanted nothing more than to stop but as hard as I tried I couldn’t control my energy or channel it.

    *warning we’re about to get slightly graphic* What I have noticed as my biggest ‘tick’ during a panic attack which I don’t think I’ve heard anyone else mention is that my bowels will turn to liquid in a second. When I say a second, I mean it too (more on this in another anecdote though) I had got up pretty abruptly, dashed to the loo and had only just managed to sit down before the… erm …. evacuation occurred. I was completely stressed out now, my legs were still twitching, foot pumping, fingers numb and I was sweating profusely. Something similar but not anywhere near as bad had happened only the week before but it had passed almost as quickly as it had come, this was different. I sat there for ages, worried because I hadn’t told my brother where I’d gone, stressed because my phone didn’t have any signal to text him & overwhelmed by how much my body was betraying me!

    To top it all off just as I was thinking surely I had nothing left to….deposit…. I started to throw up. A year and 9 months later I know now being sick is not something I (personally) should expect from a panic attack but I assume this happened because I didn’t have a clue what was happening to me. I was beyond upset and honest to goodness I actually thought I would never be able to leave that tiny cubicle ever again! Every time I thought I was done my stomach would churn and I had to sit back down. I am not discussing this lightly or because I want to amuse or provide a shock factor. I have a feeling this is a more common occurrence for people than is talked about and maybe it will help someone one day.

    In my mind I had been in their for almost half a day but in reality It was probably more like half an hour, forty minutes tops. I didn’t feel ready to leave the safety of the cubicle but all I wanted now was to get home as soon as humanly possible. I rushed out, probably still fastening my jeans. The plan was to get out the cubicle, quickly tell my brother I felt ill and leave all within 5 minutes but as I came out the bathroom area and walked back into the cafe everything was silent and everyone’s eyes quickly darted to me, most with stern faces.

    Now I’m pretty sure this is how many of us feel pre, post and during a panic attack and at first I thought it was all in my head; I even thought I was in some weird kind of dream. However folks I wasn’t dreaming and it wasn’t just the usual thought that happens to us all people were actually staring and it was deadly silent, the coffee machines weren’t even whirring away! It turns out ladies and gents that I had emerged from the ladies at 11am on remembrance Sunday and everyone was doing their two minute silence!

    Everything after this point became a blur. I remember the moment of realisation and not knowing whether to move to my table or stay where I was. I remember we left only moments after everyone started bustling about again and I remember the feeling of holding the floodgates of tears until we got home. I remember I asked if we could walk the long way to the bus station so I didn’t have to smell the cafe’s or the soap shop (all of which I knew would set my stomach off again) and I remember apologising a thousand times to my brother who didn’t fuss over me but just kept assuring me I didn’t need to apologise and I would be okay (seriously this is why the dude is more than a brother & is more of a best friend).

    Whereas the panic attack and the 5 minutes after emerging from the ladies had seemed to go painfully slow the aftermath was like a flickerpad of snapshots whizzing by quickly getting to the final frame; me an exhausted, drained and zombie like mess on my sofa for the rest of the day. Even looking back at it now a year and 9 months later makes me tense but in a way I’m glad it happened because the next day I called the Dr and bit the bullet, she was so kind and reassuring and despite what I’d thought she didn’t push me into any direction regarding medication, counselling etc she gave me all the information she had and gave me time.

    I have been on the medication for a year and 8 months now and those first few weeks I felt shame about it but now I know there is no shame in doing what is needed to look after yourself. Medication at that time was what I needed to keep me afloat while I got to this stage and there is nothing wrong with that!

    Anxiety · Depression · Fiction

    About Fears & Fiction

    About Fears & Fiction:

    I’m here to share the nitty, gritty and not so pretty ups and downs and constant battles I’ve had with depression and anxiety. I love watching youtubers and reading blogs about other people’s tips and tricks on how to cope but I’ve noticed that a lot of the time these out lets can over simplify and at times glamorise mental health. I don’t know about you but sometimes these tips are just not that easy to work into my mindset!

    I want to create a safe space for all to talk about how difficult it is to change your habits, behaviorĀ and attitude but also how, ultimately, it’s worth while trying. I want to share stories/anecdotes and my coping mechanisms with you all in the hopes of helping someone else who might feel isolated by standards others project as normal and easy in the recovery process.

    Ultimately this is a place for me to log my progress and share my thoughts and feelings on the steps forward and inevitable steps back. However the long term goal for me would be to help others, even if it’s one person, understand they are not alone!


    Fiction has played a very big part in my life. From as far back as I can remember I have wanted to be an author and shortly after I realised that, I became a big reader. I am not over exaggerating when I say that writing, at one point in my life, literally saved my life. I was lucky to find this, my healthy outlet from so many unexpressed emotions. And then there is my second love, reading, which takes me to worlds outside of my own so I can leave the troubles that haunt my mind in the real world while I explore throughout the pages giving my mind a well deserved break!

    My Background:

    *I want to firstly say I am not in anyway shape or form an expert. I have never studied mental health before and I will never claim to have all the answers. All I will ever be able to do is tell my story and advice based on my own experiences.*

    I have suffered with depression for as long as I can remember and was diagnosed when I was 14. When I Look back on it I Ā can see that I’d also suffered with anxiety for as long but it wasn’t until I was 25, the end of 2015, that I had my first big panic attack and was diagnosed.

    I am only just seeing the light at the end of the tunnel since my anxiety diagnoses and the past 18 months or so have been such a struggle and has taken a massive toll not just on my mental health but also my physical health and well being (which I will go more into depth with in future posts).